fix(pstack): operator-neutral pronouns + in-chat status tick

[poteto]

Why

The autopilot playbooks and the multi-phase plan already call the human "the operator", but they still refer back with she, her, and herself. An agent that reads them addresses one specific person. This PR ports the pronoun genericize from the private lauren-mode skill so the playbooks fit any operator.

The audit tick prompt in the plan skeleton also said "send the operator a status message", which leaves the channel open. It now names the channel. A root posts status in the chat it runs in, not to a named person or an external channel.

Before

Then send the operator a status message, whether or not anything changed, with the queue table of PR, owner, state, and head SHA, ...

After

Then post a status message to the operator in chat, whether or not anything changed, with the queue table of PR, owner, state, and head SHA, ...

Scope

• skills/poteto-mode/playbooks/multi-phase-plan.md. "her explicit go" and "On her go" become "the operator's". Tick prompt rewritten as above.
• skills/poteto-mode/playbooks/autopilot-stack.md. "she reviews and lands herself" becomes "to review and land". "her explicit go" and "her stop" become "the operator's". "with her own clicks or with merge-when-ready she arms herself" becomes "with their own clicks or by arming merge-when-ready".
• skills/poteto-mode/playbooks/autopilot-full.md. "stay hers", "She reviews and she clicks", "When she asks", "her explicit go", "her click", "Her hold", "until she releases them" all become "the operator" or "the operator's".
• skills/poteto-mode/SKILL.md. The Autopilot-stack router line drops "herself".
• .cursor-plugin/plugin.json. 0.15.1 to 0.15.2.

Where owners and the operator share a paragraph, the text spells out "the operator" rather than "they" or "their". "their" appears once, in the autopilot-stack delivery step, where no owner is in the paragraph. check-plan.mjs already requires the word operator in Review gates, so it is unchanged. The guide image alt texts in docs/guide describe a person in an illustration, not the operator, and are unchanged.

Blast Radius

Prose only, in three playbooks and one router line. No step, gate, or reply contract changes. The tick prompt gains a channel and loses no content.

Verification

• rg -n '\b[Ss]he\b|\b[Hh]er\b|\bhers\b|herself' pstack/skills/poteto-mode/playbooks/{multi-phase-plan,autopilot-stack,autopilot-full}.md returns no lines. The same grep over all of pstack/skills and pstack/agents returns no lines.
• multi-phase-plan.md contains post a status message to the operator in chat and no longer contains send the operator.
• The plan skeleton extracted from multi-phase-plan.md passes node pstack/skills/poteto-mode/scripts/check-plan.mjs, 1 PR section and 0 problems, before and after the change.
• The ten added lines carry no long dash, curly quote, or mid-sentence colon under the same rules check-plan.mjs applies.
• plugin.json parses and reports version 0.15.2.

  

[GGBboy694]

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