feat: Enable restarter-controller for history and connect server StatefulSets

[razvan]

Description

Part of stackabletech/issues#816

Connect test:

--- PASS: kuttl (673.98s)
    --- PASS: kuttl/harness (0.00s)
        --- PASS: kuttl/harness/spark-connect_openshift-false_iceberg-latest-1.11.0_hive-iceberg-4.0.0_spark-connect-4.1.2_s3-use-tls-true (673.96s)
PASS

History test:

--- PASS: kuttl (173.41s)
    --- PASS: kuttl/harness (0.00s)
        --- PASS: kuttl/harness/spark-history-server_openshift-false_spark-4.1.2_s3-use-tls-true (173.39s)
PASS

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[sweb]

lgtm

[razvan]

thanks